Before we build anything —
we want to listen.
I've been on matrimony apps. I know what it feels like to send a message and hear nothing back. To be compared to someone else's son's salary. To be told "horoscope doesn't match" before a single conversation happened. To watch someone disappear — after weeks of talking — without a word.
I spent months writing down every frustration I felt, and every frustration people around me quietly carried. I found 41 distinct pain points in how arranged marriage works today.
Not minor inconveniences. Real, recurring, emotionally expensive problems — that platforms today either ignore, or quietly profit from.
I don't think I've found all of them. That's why this page exists.
Before I build a single feature, I want to know what you've been through. What hurt. What humiliated you. What no one talks about.
I'm listening.
These aren't complaints. They're patterns — documented across hundreds of real experiences, including mine. Click each category to read them.
Real stories. Anonymous. Unfiltered. From people who've been through it.
I found 41 problems. But I know there are more — in your family's conversations, in messages you never sent, in feelings you've never said out loud to anyone. Share it here. I read every single one.